verbminx ([personal profile] verbminx) wrote2003-11-03 05:29 am

i am a nerd, and a little bit of a dork, with occasional geek tendencies.

what do you think of this? i stole it from HERE (you don't need to get a daypass to read the lettercol, tho you will have to view the ad if you want to read the original article).

I am a nerd. I am also a dork and a geek. I think of these as three separate but related identities and have spent way too much of my free time developing discrete definitions of the three.

Nerds are defined by what they know. We tend to stick to societally acceptable topics, but dive in much deeper or cover a wider variety of subjects than most. We are the grad students of the world, the academics, researchers and general know-it-alls.

Dorks are defined by what they like. Similar to the nerd, we dive in much deeper than the average person, but the topics we pursue tend to be much more nontraditional. We learn to speak Klingon or Elvish or know the plot lines, writers, and artists of all the major comic books and most of the minor ones.

Geeks are defined by what they can do. We may not know as much as the nerd on any given topic, but we can do more with what we know. We can hook up a home theater, fix a computer, or super-charge a lawnmower. We are the tinkerers, programmers, and garage inventors.

Some broad examples of my taxonomy: Nerds get A's in AP classes. Dorks play D&D. Geeks set up LANs.

All of our incarnations have spent more time learning about stuff than we have interacting with other people, hence our reputation for social awkwardness. We are handy, interesting, and often downright annoying to have around when our specialty areas come up, but are otherwise generally avoided.

I'm a nerd/dork/geek, but that's not the entirety of my identity. I like myself and my life, and against all odds, I've managed to find a life partner who feels the same. Of course, she's a bit nerdy/dorky/geeky herself, but aren't we all?

-- Matthew Burack

[identity profile] djymm.livejournal.com 2003-11-03 07:13 am (UTC)(link)
I've never placed "dork" in the same camp as "geek" and "nerd". For me "dork" denotes social fumbling, especially tied to romantic or sexual pursuits. The guy who sticks a "turbo" decal on his car to make himself seem more impressive is a dork. The bank clerk who got himself a gig writing elvish calligraphy for the Lord of the Rings films is not.

"Nerd" is closer to "dweeb" or "milquetoast" and suggests a refined intellect at the expense of physicality or, to some extent, real experience. The word "sophomoric" also comes to mind. Do people still use the term? I haven't heard it for some time.

"Geek" gets applied to anyone with a store of specialized knowledge.