I have no interest in whaling on you or anyone. And you are perfectly justified in having any reaction that you feel like to any of these posts. I just think you should make it in your own journal and not use someone else's journal to call them a "selfish jerk." There's a line between giving respectful, if differing, feedback to someone's post, and insulting them in their own journal. I always thought that was a basic rule of LiveJournal.