said friend also passive-aggressively made my mother decide whether or not it was OK for her to come down - duh, it wasn't OK to ASK.
I should add here, to clarify, that my mom did not want them to come, heavily hinted about it, suggested that they come in March instead (which the friend veto'd because she didn't want to pull her kid out of school - this is kid's spring break), basically did everything she could short of saying no, but friend didn't get the message. friend also said she would come for "a week" and will actuall be here for almost two weeks... I think it's something like 11 days. I seriously think we should make her hotel it for the last four.
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I should add here, to clarify, that my mom did not want them to come, heavily hinted about it, suggested that they come in March instead (which the friend veto'd because she didn't want to pull her kid out of school - this is kid's spring break), basically did everything she could short of saying no, but friend didn't get the message. friend also said she would come for "a week" and will actuall be here for almost two weeks... I think it's something like 11 days. I seriously think we should make her hotel it for the last four.